The punishment thing is tricky. In my sitch, so many think I'm being too nice. Like he shouldn't be able to see them easter. But I just ask, who do I want to be? My kids deserve to see their dad. Just because my H is being disrespectful to our M by having an A, doesn't mean I get to act like a scorned woman. Sure, people could excuse it, but that doesn't make it right. Do I feel like some days I'm just eating at Sh*t sandwich? Yep. But, treating my H like crap won't make me feel better in the long run. Holding on to that resentment and anger will only hurt me.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
