I too thank you Beatrice for updating.

I got bomb drop in 2008 and 3 mth later we were divorced!
He married 5 months after this to a woman he met in a bar and knew for 5 mths.
Ex has been angry and very mean since 2008. Our son was 18 when he left so no interaction (well not much), was too neccessary.
Of course, I brought alot of the anger on myself trying to hang on to him. BUT to this day the man hates me and I have quick trying to really understand why.
My son lives with him so I havent had any contact with ex for about 3 yrs. other than trying to contact him about son a couple times and getting hung up on at the sound of my voice.
What puzzles me the most is ex's reaction to family and friends that WE knew together. He will not even act like he knows anybody that has any interaction with me from the past or present.
Bea or Snodderly or anyone else who wants to chime in.
How does the MLC play out if they remarry?
All I know is he still hates me, and puts his new wife before son. According to our son.
It has been five yrs. I may hold the record for ex's ongoing anger. lol
I have wondered though if his being married will stop any of the MLC progress.

Hugs to all,
Renee

PS. Bea are you on the alt?


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10