Well SG you have to ask yourself just how long can you live like this. Seems like our sitchs have some similarities. Do you think rhat you could ever trust your W again? It isn't easy but it can be done IF she wants to R which it doesn't sound like she wants right now.
It sounds to me like she can live like this forever. As far as her scratching your head well to me it's like she is giving you scraps.
I agree... she's throwing scraps. Nothing of any value was exchanged by her scratching my head.
I was angry this morning... she works tonight. She offered to have dinner ready and offered to make me breakfast since we were out of my normal grab-and-go breakfast. I snapped at her. I was angry that she stayed out late with no indication of what she was doing. She used to share some details... I know she's hiding something.
The ring she was wearing when she left last night wasn't on her finger this morning. It also wasn't in the place where she puts it while sleeping. Makes me wonder if she threw it in her purse when she walked out the door.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done