reb, it gets easier. I can remember H and I going to an appt with S20's IC and saying that anyone looking in would have thought we were still together. It was a bit surreal.I agree with vero, jsut be happy for the nice family evening, no expectation, no projecting into the future.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss