I wonder Spartan when you feel she's pushing buttons, how do you respond to her.

And Ruby, how did you push buttons? Were you doing it consciously? Or were you as I described trying to be heard, validated?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss