I get off the boards for a week and OMG, you have had quite a busy time of things! WOW.
I agree with other. Set boundaries for yourself--no sex w H while he's w OW. Have you tried other "options" for relieving the sex drive? I'm just saying...
The "nice" thing is a killer, I have to say. It is much easier to be upset and mad at them when they are acting like jerks.
On the other hand, co-parenting will be much easier if you can remain "friendly" without getting overly friendly and letting your emotions get the best of you.
How many weeks r u now??
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
