So had a good session with IC today, she got me back on track to deal with myself, my issues, ones that H has pointed out, controling and low self esteem...
We did also discuss that H needs to be willing to work on his baggage too...as you know he is passing a lot of blame on me typical set me in a better frame to concentrate on me, back up from him, I know what the result will be if I go back to doing what I have been doing...in the end if he has not worked on what he needs to I might have to look at whether I am ready to take him back...
THanks for the support ladies...I like the hot stove comment...Thanks Reb...