Really interesting find T^2. I had a reply typed out, but thought it was better to just posted on my thread since it ended up being all about H. I think they want the intimacy bonding, and know that comes with the spouse relationship, but they are incapable of it, thus incapable of any kind of relationship with the spouse.

I hope you're feeling better!

M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17