We've all felt similar. We've all been there. The real question is do we want to stay there?

SP, I'm not trying to beat up on you but you take everything to a catastrophic level. I do that too sometimes. Many of the scenarios you listed are pretty remote, don't you think.

I know this is, and will continue to be, rough for your D but if you and W can at least co-parent peacefully that will make a huge difference for her.

I would doubt that the courts will loot the family corp and give it all to W.

You and W may both have a different standard of living if you D and it's sad but that's the reality of the situation.

I didn't suggest you were cruel or unloving, just angry. And hurt.

I know how crappy that feels.

But I also know there's a future out there for you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss