I found Limbo Land

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Sounds like you you have come a long way in a very short time

Well yes and no, I have learnt a lot about what to do, what to expect, and how to behave - whether or not i am there yet is another story. I am trying very hard to be patient, but as most people have pointed out thats the difficult part of it all.

Problem is my W is the most stubborn person i have ever met, and thats what I love about her. I never actually realised that it would work against me one day - which is my biggest concern - for my W to begin to thing differently or let the feelings come back is going to take much much more than your average spouse.