Mr2.4, thanks for sharing your situation. Sounds like you you have come a long way in a very short time - much shorter than what it has taken so congratulations on that part and keep up the good work.

Many similarities in our situations so I appreciate your posts and can relate to your sitch. Agree with others here that unfortunately hugs, ILY, etc... will only be viewed as pressure or manipulative for now - learned that the hard way!

Keep up the good work.


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork