Not confused, still emotional, getting very angry

[whitneypinch]

My god is that true !!!

2 days ago my XW just announced to me and our kids that she is now in a serious relationship.
My poor little kids are devastated but I am helping them through it.

XW contacted me to help them though all of this. I said I would, which I think shocked her. She indicated how appreciative she was and that it's no surprise given that fact that I am such a fantastic father.
She then went on to say she was sorry for hurting me and the kids and what great parents we were.
...And then signed the email with (((hugs)))

Nice hu ???

I had the kids last night, a day after she told them about her new relationship.
My poor little guy was crying etc. but was very open with me about his feelings.
As expected I got an email from my XW this morning asking how the evening with the kids went?
I explained we had a really great evening until bedtime when my 8 year son was crying. I told her how positive, supportive and strong I was for my son etc.

Her response "thats great news, thank you for doing that, I will speak to him further"

Well, either this is the greatest divorce ever or the most ridiculous divorce ever.

It kind of [censored] being told how awesome you are, seeing the kids in horrific pain but focused on a new relationship, instead of ours.

Bomb was 5 years ago.

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