It was already sent, my IC and I had talked about it but thanks, Vero. I thought after that perhaps I should have put it up here first. I too have learned less is better and maybe that didn't need to be there but I was recognizing we weren't on the same page. Did it sound defensive?
That's often the case in these convos gone bad. We're operating from 2 different sets of facts, both assuming that we know what the other knows and not asking questions to find out more info. We take the first arrow and attack!
He replied very simply that from now on he would email or call first.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
