What do I tell the part of my brain that says I am making this waaayyy too easy on H with all this acceptance? It hurts!!!!
I get the feeling you think you should be punishing him in some way. Ask that part of your brain if punishment every really changes behavior in a positive way.
You've probably been using punishment for years (I did). Has it helped you or hurt you?
Between right and wrong there's a whole lotta room.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
