Dawn, When the mlcer is living at home and is in a very dark place, it is difficult for the lbs to understand the whys, what ifs and how tos of the situation. In working w/others that are dealing w/situations like yours, the best advice that I can give to you is to just leave him alone. He has to work through his inner turmoil and I know it's not pretty what they through.
Please take care of yourself and your children. Try to keep the focus on you. Okay?
I like the fact that you have turned it over to God and what better time to do so...then at Easter. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
