Thank you, I will look out for my membership card in the post
Quote:
Money is the only thing that kept her here. Fast forward two more months and, for whatever reason, that anger is now gone. She is even friendly now. Does that mean she doesn't want a D? I have no idea and I am not asking either. She still shows no signs of affection toward me but at least she does not show hatred toward me. I say all of this to just point out that your W can change. It takes time.
This is like a carbon copy of my life and sitch right now. I have seen change in attitude towards me, since the first few weeks and it feels a little like W's panic has subsided a little.
Quote:
Now, I just need to go back and read this for myself every few days because I am still not there yet. Keep your head up and press on.
Again, you sound like me - you know exactly what to do and expect, but daily reminders are important to help remember that its still happening and is far from over. You sound like you have come a long way though, which is great!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.