Sounds like you need a babysitter so you can have a guy day, where you do some fun guy stuff like ride motorcycles or see a band or go to a sporting thing.
Or a date with a real live girl Might do you some good MM. I haven't been on what I would call DATE date: I've just invited a few female colleagues or their friends to events that I would have normally taken W...0h I forgot, she insisted I never took her anywhere, ever! Sorry, I'm the LBS, so I'm automatically wrong o this point. Any who, its all strictly platonic (so far ) and it feels real nice to spend some time with a female of the species every once in a while who isn't trippin b@lls crazy. J.
She did not mention women or dating but it's interesting that you did.
Sorry b/c I don't know your whole situation, but what is YOUR GOAL here?
Is it to save the marriage?
B/C if it is, then still calling your wife names here (trippin' balls crazy"...b/c she left a great guy or what??)
anyhow, name calling at this point means you are not working nearly enough on YOUR OWN STUFF...and that will NOT help you CHANGE YOUR LIFE or stop sounding bitter, and it won't help you save the m...
AND NOR will dating
or pretending to date...or tempting yourself to date...seems like an odd game to me.
Do these OWs know that you are not available for anything real at this time and that you have not healed?
And if your goal is NOT saving the marriage but something else, what is it?
To GAL?
Do you think you have to have a woman to GAL?
If so, you misunderstand the purpose of GAL.
Besides, no offense, but the more rapidly a man looks to replace his mate just so he can have a woman on his arm, WHILE still looking over his shoulder to see if his WAS notices...the sadder he seems to me.
Just my take on it..
Plus, I think you are reacting to your emotions
INSTEAD of behaving in line with your plan/goal. Avoid doing that.
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Might do you some good MM. I haven't been on what I would call DATE date: I've just invited a few female colleagues or their friends to events that I would have normally taken W...0h I forgot, she insisted I never took her anywhere, ever! Sorry, I'm the LBS, so I'm automatically wrong o this point. Any who, its all strictly platonic (so far 
) and it feels real nice to spend some time with a female of the species every once in a while who isn't trippin b@lls crazy. J. 
