it's not that I think you are a weak guy. I don't. I see a lot of hope in your sitch but there are other factors that are stirring in the pot and that is BAD news for you...
stop letting things get stirred up. It's NO ONE ELSE's business what goes on...it really is a private matter. Keep it that way.
And keep up your work. Nothing more annoying to a WAW than seeing her ex h, turning into the man she always wanted him to be, for PRACTICE -
so he can be a man only a fool would leave...for some other woman...
Give yourself some time, and give HER some too.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016