so she's only "allowed" to live on "your property" if what?
(And was this the family home or what? Why is she there if it's a new place? She chose to live on your family's property?)
OR IS this where she was in the first place and you want to kick her out if she dates THAT Man (b/c remember, you said she can date OMs in general)
or is it that she cannot date at all, as long as she lives where she is?
See, I still hear pride & anger talking.
You told her she could date but you now say you want to be able to choose WHOM she dates...(nothing controlling there...) OR WHERE? I mean, can you see how confusing and capricious it looks of you?
& frankly, who cares if you told that guy to stop talking to her? I mean, does he work for you?
He brought kids with him and your d was there, to lend legitimacy to their interactions, so no one would accuse her of cheating or sleeping with him. AND YET b/c he broke your laws...your friend appointed himself the sheriff in town and gave her a dressing down...great...
She probably IS turning to this guy for emotional support, obviously...but why do you get to decide that for her?
You can't one day say "since we'll be friends, we SHOULD tell each other all this dating stuff"
and then kick her out b/c she has a guy over With his kids...
I'm not sure what the deal is with the money and rental thing. If she chose to move there for some reason, I'm mystified as to why...unless she feels a little bit comfortable there. Gee, you better stop THAT feeling asap...oh wait...you wanted to reconcile...
so how is this "showing her a thing or two," moving you closer to your goal?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
