I wrote this to him:

H
I really want to have this princess party for D2, she will only be 3
once. Also there is no guarantee that it will rain and we would move
indoors.

We will both be parents to the girls for a long time and I think its
important that we learn how to co-parent together and get along.

I hope you will reconsider.

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I am so proud of myself for sending this. It was scary for me to stand up for myself to him. I still want his approval, even though I know nothing I do will get his approval - I need to do what is right for me and the girls.

I cant thank you guys enough for your supportive feedback. Seriously. Thank you


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13