when I HAD to discuss where h was, or why, which mainly happened with neighbors or a teacher,
I'd say "he's 3000 miles away...Yeah, we're having a marital challenge right now, but I"m hopeful it'll sort itself out in time, AND thanks for your support"....
I never had people prying once I said that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016