I found Limbo Land

[Grizz]

Welcome to the limbo club. Unfortunately not a club that I willingly signed up for. You are just 8 weeks into this. To you it seems like an eternity but realistically you are just getting started. At that point in my sitch my W hated me. She had such anger and she couldn't get out fast enough. Money is the only thing that kept her here. Fast forward two more months and, for whatever reason, that anger is now gone. She is even friendly now. Does that mean she doesn't want a D? I have no idea and I am not asking either. She still shows no signs of affection toward me but at least she does not show hatred toward me. I say all of this to just point out that your W can change. It takes time.

I can't remember if it was sandi or 25, but one of them said that you will need more patience than you ever thought you had and when you think you have reached that limit then multiply that by 10.

This is hard. No doubt about. The rollercoaster is awful. Okay days followed by terrible days. I will have days that I think I am detached and days that I think I am finished with my whole sitch. Then I will have days that I look at my W and still think she is the love of my life and I will never stop trying.

Patience in key. PMA is key. GAL is key.
Now, I just need to go back and read this for myself every few days because I am still not there yet. Keep your head up and press on.