WAW...finally asked her to leave

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Well, here's the latest. I have no contact with W unless initiated by her. W left on 14 Dec after I told her she needed to leave or commit to M. Due to losing re-bid on contract, I lost my job at the end of January. Still looking. Had some interviews and 'we want you's" but still waiting/looking. Current job lost due to sequestration and lost of re-bid. Possibility of a contract coming out the end of this month...we'll see. Govt is tight on contracts at this time. MIL was moved to SIL's house at beginning of the month. Youngest dau came out for visit from Jan-Mar. She is back home now with first grandson. He turned 1 today. Both dau's (from pervious marriage, but have known current W for most of their lives and love her, too) not happy with W and what she is doing. They learned of her affair right before youngest dau came out in Jan. S is definitely not happy and is/has been staying with me and has not stayed with W in her new place at all. He has visited (with me) a couple of times, but wants nothing to do with staying/visiting with her there. He is def upset with her and wants nothing to do with OM and has stated to W that OM took advantage of her during her 'distressed/ depressed' time and does not agree with what she says about OM.