My sitch is the same as well, good thing though is that H cant kick me out of the apartment because its owned by his family and not him or myself (he tried to kick me after the D bomb) since its a mutual space though he cant force it and his family is smart enough to stay out of it.
We are still living together but no intimacy at all, we were very physical prior to DB. Unfortunately H has depression and does not want physical contact due to his mental state.
I have had good results just leaving him alone to deal with his own problems, but im still dealing with alot of anger on my part so I am thinking separation might be good thing. For now though, its calm at home, but there are days when i just want to scream at him.
For me, distancing myself, going out with friends and engaging on hobbies keeps me sane. H seems to like it that way too.
