I spent the weekend reading your thread In Tandem--MLC and Depression, it was one the best reads for me and my sitch. It also lead to some very good threads and made a chain of interesting information.
From reading what you wrote then and today I agree that I need to let it ride a bit. You ask me if I love him enough to do so, I don't like to admit if I love him because I am in self preservation mode, but I'm sure I do.
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I honestly do not think he wants a separation and/or divorce. He is very much aware of how much the family unit means to him.
He said just this morning, he's not looking for a divorce, those words exactly. As for the family, he has no intention on loosing the family, but his L is buried and he tries to have no emotional even though I do touch him.
I read that most D happen during this time not because the MLC/WAS files but because the LBS runs out of reasons to stay married.
In God's hands...that's all I have!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
