I've started a fresh thread now:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2333524#Post2333524

Please follow me there if you all have the time!

Thanks for everyones input up to now, much appreciated.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.