Please, it's not hijacking, I welcome your post. I think if we didn't live together it would be easier, especially since we don't have little kids to share. I would love to not see or talk to him for a very long time.
Stay strong!
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The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!