Think I may have figured out why I'm unraveling today - I feel super awkward about H being at my house today while I'm not home. This came up a couple weeks ago but the circumstances are a little different this time as I left the gate & shed unlocked and he's doing what he's doing to get backyard in shape. I thought he'd be there after kids got out of school but he texted about a 1.5 hours before they were released to say "just so you know I'm at house".
So the weird feeling is that on one hand I'm paving the way home & promoting friendship but on the other hand - he's in my back yard right now and locked out of my house! I'm not feeling too friendly about that. He has keys to house still but I changed the alarm code & garage door code so basically he can't get in. And we've never talked about it. But I'm not necessarily ready to tell him to make himself at home...
What does everyone else do with a WAS and access to the 'family' home??
