I, much like many here, went most of my adult life "just knowing" W and I would be together forever. I miss that blissful ignorance sometimes, but I'm working on it.
Wow, does that comment hit home I sure miss that blissful ignorance as well. That's something that I (and probably none of us) will ever have again, whether W and I reconcile or not. And that's a real shame, it's kind of like finding out that Santa isn't real, LOL!
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I'd like to read the 5 Love Languages. The problem I have is I'd like to read R books privately and keep them to myself, but W and are together 99% of the time. Perhaps I'll look for a digital copy and read it on my work computer when I can, but even that sometimes is hard as W walks info my office numerous times throughout the day. I'm constantly clicking off this site when she walks in
I think 5LL would be something you could share with W, you don't really need to keep it a secret. Women love taking all those love quizzes in magazines, so getting her to take the LL quiz shouldn't be a problem. My W was like a week from moving out and still took the test (I have the digital copy, so I read the questions aloud to her and wrote down her answers). I definitely encourage you to get her to take the quiz because most of the time our spouse does not have the LL we guess they do, and it's important to know where to focus your LL efforts.
I sure miss that blissful ignorance as well. That's something that I (and probably none of us) will ever have again, whether W and I reconcile or not. And that's a real shame, it's kind of like finding out that Santa isn't real, LOL! 