A brief list- -Stopped asking her about her whereabouts constantly as this bothered her -stopped playing "20 questions" whenever she got home -stopped talking about R constantly -started dressing better -I spent more time with friends and family, rather than sitting around he house -validating nearly every conversation.. She even mentioned I was "Like yoda" -acted as if I was fine whenever I was around her. Acted like I would be fine no matter the outcome. -took a larger interest in politics and current events, something that interests her. _________________________
Okay, so had you been asking her a lot of questions before the bomb, or did it only start afterwards?
I can understand how why you would have a problem with assurances, but if you fell back into those old patterns, it could be very smothering to her.
I had been asking a lot of questions last fall, before the bomb on 10/8/2012. I haven't asked questions since then. I gave her the freedom she wanted.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
