Thank you for the support and inspiration. I am trying to do my best detaching and GAL. Very tough but I am doing a pretty good job not contacting her. I just think about her all day everyday!!
In my post earlier I spoke about reasons my wife wants a divorce and I do agree that I got comfortable and begin not to appreciate and also began to get disrespectful during arguements, However, I do feel like divorce is extreme. She would not consider marriage counseling so I decided to go by myself to work on my own issues.
To give a little more information about our sitch.....
We married 10/13/12, went on our honeymoon in Decemeber and got back 12/23/12. Since we have been married we literally have got in 3 arguements that would be considered big arguements. 1/12/13 was our last arguement that has resulted in this. She filed for the D 2/13/13 and I moved out 3/1/13. We are seperated now with very little contact. She has blocked me from texting her and calling her. The only way I would be able to contact her is through email. I have began implementing the 180's and the last resort technique but how will she ever know or see a change if we are in contact so little? I fear because of this and the fact that the divorce proceedings are in progress I will not have much time to DB!! How long should I go before I contact her if she doesnt contact me? SHould I ask her to get together?? Very confused and just love my wife too much to let her go.
I would like to see some progress using the last resort technique within 3 weeks time. And I would love for her to put a hold on the divorce proceedings and try marriage counseling before the finalization of the D.
I will read some other sitch"s on here! Thank you
H 33 W 32 M 5 months S 2 months
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
