Hey Jay- Welcome to the best place to be in a s*itty situation.
This will most likely be the most difficult time in your life but also has the chance to be the most rewarding. And that is regardless if you and your wife patch things up or not.
You gave some reasons why your wife filed for D, do you agree with those?
Can you elaborate more for us?
Have you set any expectations in your mind as far as a time line for this to be resolved in one way or another? This most likely will be a long road so buckle up.
Do yourself a favor and read other peoples sitch's on here. You will make some great friends and also gain new perspectives.
You are far from alone in this Jay.
Best of Luck
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
