It's important for me to seem strong, project POM for him, but I should also be honest.
See, H took monday off. He could have spent the day cleaning out his grandma's place and then come over to see the kids when he said he would. Instead, he borrowed the snow shovel and went around shoveling people's driveways. It snowed a foot on sunday. Not ours, because I did that myself. But, he texted that he took our shovel, then some woman I don't know tagged him in a post on FB saying thanks for shoveling her driveway. I of course assume he did that for OW as well. So, I'm really upset about his priorities, but...not my deal. It is tricky to figure out how to approach the fact that his kids need more of his time. An hour and a half last week...so far we are on wednesday and they haven't seen him. They don't really ask about him much anymore. But, they act out in other ways. D2 still sobbing when I drop her off at school. S3 super clingy to any man who will give him attention.
Going to an ala-non meeting tonight, got a sitter. The kids stuff just kills me, because I know it upsets him...but these are his choices. Yea, go see your mistress before you see your kids. Nice.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
