Lefty, I had the exact same thought last night. But woke up this morning and it is a new day. I am going to keep with it. Keep your head up.
I'm trying, Grizz. (Do you know Dot-Com? (30 Rock reference))
It's rough for me; my situation is unique even among DBers. (Shorter marriage, no kids, wife making an ugly divorce, can't even talk to her if I wanted to.) I feel like I can't contribute to others' threads because my sitch is so different.
This is just how I feel now. And I feel angry and hurt that I am so disposable to her. Maybe that is mindreading, but that's how I feel.
What I DO appreciate is that this place respects the sanctity of marriage and is not misogynist or misandrist. A lot of places on the web are notorious for advising everybody to "dump the [censored]" or revel in putting the screws to their spouse and spraying hate everywhere. This place is so much better, and everybody here deserves props.