FIL situation was due to a bad reaction to his medication.

Don't know many details.

All communication with H has been texting. Not going so great. We got in a fight. I'm going to chalk it up to tension because of the FIL issue (on top of course of the MLC issue and the OW issue...)

I apologized for my part in the bad words.

Haven't heard back from h now for a couple of hours.

Do not know his plans.

Its a big hairy mess.

Thanks everyone for your good wishes.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.