Yes, I have read both and they have been so helpful. Living seperately has been hard for me as I dont know what the protocol is for how we handle our relationship. From the outside it looks like she is moving on with her life. I am confused but need to continue to GAL.
My W was over my house last week as I invited her and the kids for dinner. After dinner while the kids where playing she told me she went to see a lawyer and wants to start the D process. I simply asked her if that was what she really wanted and she responded with a YES. I am in a much better mindset these days and will continue to GAL.