DB is "The Rules" 2.0 but in much more meaningful way because it's not just strategy, but I true change in behavior and thinking. I already feel like more a dignified and respectable woman for it.
OK, so you're feeling dignified, respectable and detached, that's great!!
Originally Posted By: JoyPeaceNLove
Today I learned that one of the OW works at the gym I train at. :-/
I'm just so confused and hurt. This is not the man I once knew. He once was a good man, a man of positive influence and high moral character.
Oops! OK, not so detached after all How is is that knowing OW works at the same gym has made you question your H's integrity? Is it because knowing she works there has now made her more "real"? Regarding H's integrity, it's very likely he's not who you thought he was. All of us are sinners, some sins are small and some are great but we all do wrongs. Some of us can put up amazing facades that feign high moral character, but behind that facade is just another sinner. I'm not trying to justify his affairs, I'm just saying you may have had a false perception of who he was and now you see him for who he really is. The question you have to ask yourself is can you love and remain married to the flawed person he really is.
How is is that knowing OW works at the same gym has made you question your H's integrity? Is it because knowing she works there has now made her more "real"? Regarding H's integrity, it's very likely he's not who you thought he was. All of us are sinners, some sins are small and some are great but we all do wrongs. Some of us can put up amazing facades that feign high moral character, but behind that facade is just another sinner. I'm not trying to justify his affairs, I'm just saying you may have had a false perception of who he was and now you see him for who he really is. The question you have to ask yourself is can you love and remain married to the flawed person he really is.