That is the part that annoys me to no end. I am supposed to raise the kids alone both physically and financially but then he thinks he should have them for a huge portion of the summer and every other Christmas?? Are you kidding me??

I want them to have a relationship with their father, I am the one that sends him pictures and tells them what they are doing and school and stuff. But I am not willing to go 5 weeks without seeing them. I said they could go for 2 weeks that is plenty. I said anytime he is in Florida I will give him full access. He should be here helping raise them, they are clearly not his first priority anymore and I will not budge on this point. I have compromised many other things but I won't on this. I welcome the chance to go to court and tell a judge how he doesn't want to pay child support. I am sure that will go over well...