My lawyer and H's lawyer were talking trying to get us to come to an arrangement an informal mediation. My lawyer wasn't trying to tell me to take that deal, I am sorry if I wasn't clear I was so angry with H. My lawyer was just telling me what they were proposing.
H is saying he can only afford to send me $250 a month because he doesn't have a job and can't find one. He had one but he quit because it was more driving than he wanted to do and hasn't been able to find another one. I am not sure I believe him but whatever. He also left his job here to move to be with OW. When he lived here he was making more than I did.
