AI didn't do it in front of wife, but I DID chew this friend out in a big way. I made it clear that he had no right to get involved or to be talking to her about our Relationship. I expressed this to W, then shortly after that during the same conversation, she says she wants to be completely free to do whatever she wants in life, that she hasn't waivered once, that she hasn't given me false hope, that she has been, for roughly 2 years, considering divorce, that she no longer loves me, is attracted to me and simply wants out. She already had the papers to fill out and she has been seceretly looking into buying a house as soon as I meet "her" terms of a divorce settlement.....that's pretty tough to DB out of.