He did not respond with an open heart or mind last weekend either I don't think...why I wanted to wait to have a talk...it is like talking to a wall right now...
Of course it is, because talking about the R is PRESSURE to the WAS, and the last thing in the world they want is pressure from anyone, but especially from the LBS!!! Pressure pushes them right out the door and into the lawyer's office. I don't remember if you said you've read DR, if not then read it ASAP. And like I said before, print out Sandi's tips (they are also in DR) and LIVE them.
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I like the idea of trying to just make it one week or two weeks at a time...that had been my goal and got derailed...now to get back at it...
Barely scraping by a week or two at a time is NOT a goal!!! Read the chapter in DR on setting goals for yourself. Get out, GAL. Make yourself the W only a fool would leave. Learn what you did wrong in the M and do 180's on those things. Your goals should be clear and succinct and driven by the above concepts. Your goals should be written down so you can monitor your progress. Post them here so we can help you fine-tune them.
