Thanks also for the tips on anniversary, whenever my wife and I talk about the kids there is so much joy and love and its the one thing we can smile at each other about and be proud of.

Even through all of this sadness we find the opportunity to be happy about that with each other. Small steps.

Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.