why not call your friend - in front of your w - and say how UNHELPFUL it was to your "cause"...? You get what he meant by it but it hurt the cause and the r you are trying to build with her.
And btw, it's NONE of anyone's business. Why is it that NO ONE spoke to me in 2 years like that about my h, unless I asked them to? And zero of them spoke to h without first clearing it with me?
You seem to have a lot of people sticking their noses where they don't belong and that is really odd to me. Is it a Jerry Springer neighborhood or what?
Most folks I know would not dream of saying something to an estranged couple b/c they'd have the sense to know it's a complicated delicate situation.
And YOU Made huge mistakes over time...stop forgetting that and stop your friends from only seeing your side of things.
or you will end up divorced. Then what? "Thanks BUDDY!"?? I mean, with friends like that, who needs enemies?
They are making her path home a lot rockier...
What would you do if your friend had spoken to her like that about ANY OTHER choice she made in life?
Wouldn't you stick up for her??
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016