Stbx is an adult, the filing is factual (as much as anything ever is). It is what it is.
So yes, I don't have much choice. I can't just let him try to proceed to settlement without providing any financial documents.
But it all seems so strange. And wrong that it's come to this (a court case about discovery).
And worst of all, maybe it's me having to face the fact that he might have been this guy who systematically took advantage of us all that worries me so much.
Had another session with my L today and I'm exhausted.
Not looking forward to stbx getting the affidavits from my L just before Easter. He's coming over to pick up the kids on Fri so I am preparing myself for a bollocking.
