So, if I understand correctly, now that my wife has taken her ring off I am supposed to believe only half of what she does?

AND, I am supposed to just goet on with life and act positively around her...and continue to wear my ring around because it feels right for me?

Wont that just piss her off even more considering she is still so angry with me.

I am suffering big time and its so hard to just pretend that I am okay and GAL, staying positive. Isnt she just going to think that I am in denial.

We are still married and I am not sure why I am hesitating to take it off...i guess it goes back to sandi's tip No. 33

" do not give up no matter how bad you feel"

I feel pretty bad!


Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.