I debated going out tonight instead of coming home right after work in order to avoid W. However, I value my time with S too much so I came home. W was angry and short with S. I remained cheerful... why bother meeting her anger with more anger.
After we put S to bed she asked me what I was going to do. I told her I had to catch up on some work. She said, "Ok. I didn't know if you wanted to talk more... otherwise I'm going to bed." I told her, "I really don't have much to say right now."
It was a surprisingly calm exchange...
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done