Could you have two parties? One at your house without him? Just a thought.
Not sure if you were looking for a solution or just feeling the sad. It is terribly sad. Can't get past his own crap to do right by his kid. Ick. Ick. ICK.
I'm glad you are doing ok though. :-)
Heather
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