MrBond, I was just going to get that but fell asleep at the keyboard, its been a long night.
My positive changes:
*I go out alone more, if a friend goes with me its fine but if they are unavailable i go alone.
*I dont care where my husband goes or when he comes home, i dont question him. he is free to do as he likes.
*I am more financially responsible, because of him kicking me to the curb i work more, make more money and have income to do things I enjoy while not relying on him. I dont have to worry about bills.
*I thank him more when he does small things for me
*I am not so grumpy anymore when I am around other people or him.
*I actively try to hang out with my friends more often instead of waiting for them to invite me. I take the initiative.
*I make plans to visit new countries and do some things I was holding back on because H didnt want to do them with me or wasnt interested. I guess its because I have nothing to loose anymore.
*I take better care of my physical appearance. I wear makeup more, make sure my hair is styled and Im wearing nice clothing.
*I study my own religion more since I dont have to take care of the H's needs I can focus on me and God.
*I am more interested in doing volunteer works as a result of me wanting space from H.
