Thanks wfm. I won't do anything, just needed to vent. Called my rock and got it out while walking in the woods. We both laughed and he said he knew I wasn't going to do or say anything, but needed to get it out. He, of course, agreed that I'd be justified in doing it, but that it would give W the high road.

I'll be cool. Any noticeable anger on my part can easily be blamed on work. I really appreciate your concern!

You keep fighting too! We'll get through this.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later