The dumb thing is that after our big fight when i first moved out, i took my ring off as I was convinced it was over, still hot-headed, angry and immensly sad with the state of.
It was only after a week on my own that i realised i no longer knew myself, that I had become someone that i hated and realised that I had some problems that i needed to resolve.
IT doesnt matter though because I did this same thing to her, i do not pretend to have any moral highground on this. I am just ashamed of the way I behaved in the first place.She is not letting go of the past and I am finding it hard to forgive my self of it as well.

Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.